woman.gifHe humiliates you … he lets you planted … and he lies to you … but you still want him and you remain by his side. Does it sound familiar …? Not only are you fooling yourself, but you create a wall that prevents you from seeing that this man is not worth it!

When a woman says she loves a man despite all the stressful situations to which he exposes her, what happens in reality is that she does not love or respect herself enough to expect better treatment. In other words she has badly damaged self-esteem and does not understand that love has to be a positive feeling.

Getting used to tolerating the pain can turn the relationship into a dangerous game of strength and endurance that is due reach extreme abusiveness.

Basically, these women feel a great fear of being left alone, either because they do not know how to live without a partner orbecause they fear the relationship they’re in may be the only opportunity to have a partner. They don’t realize that this transient loneliness may give them the opportunity to regain their self-esteem and hope to get a good companion in their life.

If you identified yourself in this post, it is time to end that dependence!