Yahoo messenger and human behavior. It’s not a new fact that people do stay on invisible most of the time. Heck, I kinda do that when I don’t want to be bugged or I just want to talk to somebody in particular. See this thing happened today, I was talking to a friend; she and I have a mutual friend. Well the mutual friend was “on” for my friend and was “off” for me. It doesn’t bother me at all, it’s just that I realized that I think that mutual friend is weird and that mutual friend probably thinks the same about me. Hilarious! We should talk sometimes and share our weirdness.

Speaking of Yahoo messenger, here’s what I have in my list: family members, best friends, friends, incidental friends, people I hate, people I don’t know :))

- family members - no need to develop, always on for them

- best friends - always on for them

- friends - not on, but they know it, they’re not on for me, but I know it :D So if we need each other, we buzz.

- incidental friends - you know, when you need something done and a friend of yours has a friend that has a friend that knows how to do that….and the friend of the friend of the friend gets in your list and you don’t erase him because you might need him in the future (99% won’t be needing him but hey)? That’s the incidental friend. Never on for them. Relationship based on necessity exclusively.

- people I hate, don’t like, former friends, ex-boyfriend(s) LOL - I keep my friends close, I keep my enemies even closer. Never on for them.

- people I don’t know - I have only one of those…no idea how that got in my list, but not gonna erase it… Probably a spy :))

Just remember…I hope you’re aware that if silence says more than a thousand words, invisibility does the same.